Men quite rightly assume that there is a long (long) list of what they do in bed with women, mainly because our sexual systems are more complicated than hers.
But do not assume that means we can not do any bad.
His orgasm may well be more automatic and guaranteed, but that does not mean that he does not notice that certain sexual behaviors are completely extinguished.
Indeed, men hate it when women are too noisy when they are within earshot of others, scratch their backs and are also self aware of your body.
Here are ten things that consistently exceed his hate list …
Suggest you watch porn together … then hate her reaction …
Most men watch porn on a reasonably regular basis – and most women know it.
Many women think, well, I’m going to kiss her rather than just become funny and suggest that you watch her together.
On what they do not count plays the supporting roles (hum) to the person / people on the screen.
Most men keep their eyes glued to the screen and it is highly likely he will do the same even if you are there with him.
‘I was so confused by how awake it happened,’ said one woman after trying it. ‘It never happened that kindled with me and it left me feeling sexually insecure. ‘
Many couples like to watch erotic art together.
If you are going to try it, do not take it as an insult if he gets it super lit up with you and do not take it personally if his attention remnants have set elsewhere.
It’s the habit, not a personal rejection.
Being too loud when others can hear
A few moans and moans are fantastic, but screaming and struggling as he tries to suffocate you with a pillow are more than a little scary for men.
Not to mention embarrassment.
You think he’ll love you being noisy because it means he’s a stud.
He dies at the prospect of having to deal with his roommates / parents / children / neighbors.
Close up on the heels of being too noisy is too noisy, too early.
Over-exaggerated groans and moans when you start kissing make it one hundred percent sure that you’ll be trafficking it later.
Lie back and taking it
As in the adoption of “dead starfish” place and non displacement of a muscle.
To find oneself behind and the thought of England is not only tedious, but condescending.
He insinuates that allowing him to simply have sex with you is enough of a turning on for him.
It’s not. It’s hot.
Going to the bathroom just before sex and not washing next
It was the bane of my best friend and hers (now excepted) the girlfriend.
‘Me doing her cunnilingus was the basis of almost every sex session we had but she would not think of going to pee just before, with the door open and not washing her hands or her pieces.
‘I found it raw. ‘
Scratching his back
In movies, scratching your nails down her back to show how excited you are at damn sexy looks.
In fact, it just damages – and gives the impression of being more than a little overdramatic.
Being also self aware of your body (organism)
Cover, up, doing it only with lights, not letting it look and admire you – none of these behaviors will mark you any points at all with any man (or woman) if you are gay or bisexual!)
Yes, we all have our insecurities and ‘greasy days’, but if you are a few months in and he does not always see you in naked reality, you take things far too far.
Body (organism) insecurities do not just have an impact on one’s visual enjoyment, they often mean that you will not try certain positions (positions) and are generally not daring in bed.
Women are the way (the way), the way (the way), the most critical way (the way) of their bodies (bodies) that their partners have from them.
If he says he finds your body (body) handsome, he does. Take the compliment and relax.
Only loving missionary position
Women favor the missionary for many reasons – some good (it’s primitive and there is a lot of eye contact), some not so good (it’s the position that hides most of your body ) and requires the slightest effort from us).
It keeps the desire high enough when you make love to a person for the rest of your life, but impossible when you are forced to do the same thing each session.